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New York's Central Park is a welcoming oasis any time of the year. A PARK FOR ALL SEASONS AND ALL PEOPLE IN CENTRAL NEW YORK CITY STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER Corby Skinner, left, with Christene "Cookie" Meyers and Bruce Keller, on a recent visit to New York. The trip's emphasis was theater, with a stroll through Central Park. A VISIT TO  New York is not complete without a stroll through Central Park. It has a magic unrivaled by any park we’ve visited in the world. That’s because it combines so many elements designed for relaxation, pleasure and enjoyment of nature. You’ll join bird watchers, chess players, bicyclers, strollers, picnickers, boaters in the summer and ice skaters in the winter. The park is well loved -- frequented by families, singles, couples, groups soaking up the splendors of this unusual and inviting oasis, established in 1853 to meet the recreational needs of a growing city.     LANDSCAPE  architects Frederick Law Olmsted and Calvert Vaux won a design competition for the park with their "Greensward Plan."  By 1859, thousands of New Yorkers ice skated on lakes designed over former swamp land. A few years later in 1876, the park was officially dedicated,  honoring the country’s centennial. After John Lennon was murdered, his widow, Yoko Ono, began designing "Strawberry Fields." Fans come to remember, honor his memory and sometimes play a tune. IT IS A stunning park in city center, visited by rock stars, athletes, popes and school groups. It has many places to reflect -- paths, benches, ponds and bike paths. Visitors enjoy horse drawn carriages, places for games, a fine restaurant and spots for meditation including Yoko Ono’s “Strawberry Fields.” The widow of musician John Lennon designed and dedicated it in 1985. It honors Lennon, one of the famous Beatles and an award winning composer, and was dedicated on what would have been his 45th birthday. Bicycles are numerous in the park, driven by visitors, food sellers and drivers offering a ride to tourists. Such a park is unusual in any city, but truly so in this bustling city of nearly eight million.  We love strolling Central Park, for its natural beauty – stunning in any season. The trees, flowers, interesting paths, even a castle, make it unique.  But the people in the park are the stars – an international mix of tourists and locals, all drawn to the beauty of its 840 acres, stretching between 59 th  and 110 th Streets and Fifth and Eighth Avenues. It is popular to have a ride through the park, on one of the colorful carriages with beautiful horses. IT HAS THE  distinction of being the first American park to be developed using landscape architecture techniques and is beloved by a worldwide fan club. We overheard conversations in 11 languages on our last visit, when we climbed to the top of Belvedere Castle with our Montana friend, Corby Skinner. The castle is considered a “folly,” an ornamental building with no real purpose except entertainment and amusement. It personifies the park’s purpose – to entertain and amuse.   Step into the park in any season and you feel a sense of peace, pride and community. UP NEXT: While we're in New York, we're featuring its famous High Line, which was created from a derelict railroad line.  It offers a beautiful stroll through landscaped gardens and intriguing sculpture. Meanwhile, explore, learn and live and catch us for a new look, a newly designed website and an easy to navigate series of topics and photographs. Coming soon.

STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER A family hike included talk about the Constitution. L-R: Bruce Keller, Christene Meyers, Rick Cosgriffe, Connor Brocious. I'M AS PATRIOTIC as the next guy or gal, but with the political tensions, shootings, riots, demonstrations and general unrest in our imperfect but glorious country, I'm up for something new this Fourth of July week. Talking with young people this summer, I realized how little they know about American history, the crafting of the Declaration of Independence, the background of the founding of the United States. They're ready to jump in to the "No Kings" protests, as I did years ago to protest the war in Vietnam.  But what do they really know? Let's get some dialogue going. Let's learn something. It can be a refresher course for adults, too. What to know about "No Kings" click here From left: Thomas Jefferson, Alexander Hamilton and our first president, George Washington. IS IT POSSIBLE, I wondered, to make learning fun, to take the "Gen Z" kids back to school without them knowing it?  To get them thinking, going to the library, looking at books again, offering an alternative to a life with strictly the internet and social media for company and resource? Sure, we all need modern technology, but let's use it to enrich not replace, and to broaden our understanding. First, have everyone agree to put down  devices for a few hours to explore a new outdoor activity with conversation and dialogue, a history lesson in disguise. Why not combine the usual barbecue with a hike, biking, boating or raft outing, or a camping day or two, to get away from technology? During a quiet moment or stop for a meal or snacks, have a few questions jotted down and get conversation going on the country's founding. A protest against the War in Vietnam from the writer's archives. Mingle fun with learning by generating a discussion about our sacred rights: freedom of religion, to assemble, to speak out. No dissertations, just highlights and questions to promote thought and dialogue: *What did we not like about the tyranny of the monarchy? * What is a democracy? What amendment allows protests, free speech * What is the Bill of Rights?  The Constitution? The Amendments and how they were instituted? The Gettysburg Address and Emancipation Proclamation and how they shaped Civil Rights.  * Why is the Civil War essential to understanding American history? Don't preach. It's a turn-off. Make this fun. The idea is to get dialogue going, to pique interest and appreciation of our freedoms. Our founding fathers challenges, click here A scene from "Gettysburg," one of a host of excellent films to give young and old background of U.S. history. HOW ABOUT a family/friends game in someone's back yard? I grew up with miniature golf and it was so much fun -- cousins, neighbors, several generations. Baseball, pickleball, basketball, badminton, volleyball. Then when everyone is unwinding, let the discussion begin. Why we separated from Britain, click here In writing this article, I'm learning more about our history. The Declaration of Independence is a wonderful document to re-read. It can easily be printed out and used to begin a dialogue. Civil War series by Ken Burns, click here Then there's nothing wrong with barbecues, parades, block parties, fireworks displays, outdoor concerts. All part of Americana. Watching a film with historic background or political overtones is a great capper to the day. Ken Burns' brilliant, award winning Civil War Series is tops. Many more:  Suggestions for Fourth of July movies Macy's Fireworks Display is one of the nation's largest. Fireworks remain a staple part of our celebrations. FIREWORKS   ARE  beloved by me and my clan.  They still come into play: Macy's Fourth of July Fireworks light up New York City from the East River. The Montreal festival -- the world's largest fireworks competition -- is on now,  featuring pyrotechnic companies from around the world: L'International des Feux Loto-Québec overlaps our Fourth. It began June 26 and continues to July 31. Macy's fireworks details, TV time Washington, D.C. continues the U.S. Capitol's patriotic tradition of a stunning fireworks extravaganza on the National Mall. Other much anticipated Fourth Fireworks shows are planned in Boston, Philadelphia, Chicago, Portland and our home base of San Diego. We've  seen thrilling Fourth of July fireworks displays. Parades and fireworks in Honolulu and Las Vegas, Lake Tahoe and Reno thrilled us. Many cities around the world sponsor Fourth of July festivities, often staged by expats. Paris, London and Sydney host free fireworks shows to entertain hotel guests and other visitors. Wherever you are -- U.S. or elsewhere -- whatever your citizenship, make it a fun, learning week. Then continue the knowledge buzz into the year. Miss Demeanour's is a Brisbane treasure, with delicious brunches, burgers and live music. A fun haunt on a food tour . UP NEXT:   Take a bite of Brisbane.  This exciting, historic Australian city has a wonderful enterprise, Delectable Tours, which features unique eateries and a delightful walking tour with flair and appeal. You'll walk the streets where Australia's first penal colony was settled, tasting delicious fare prisoners might only have dreamed of:  marinated olives, family made pad Thai,  grilled cheese with fragrant aperitifs, chickpea falafel, tasty raw salmon and gorgeous tiramisu with soothing mint tea. Enterprising owner Jamie-Lee Howard shows off her city with pride. You'll stop at hidden haunts, combining her lively history lesson with delectable bites. Remember to explore, learn and live and catch us weekly for a fresh slant on travel, food, family, performance, nature, the arts and more. Please share the links:  Click here for more on fun travel

STEP ABOARD CITY CRUISES, FORGET YOUR TROUBLES, DINE, DRINK, BE HAPPY ON A SPECIAL DAY OR JUST BECAUSE STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER Lifelong sailor Bruce Keller and Christene "Cookie" Meyers on Endless Dreams. WE LOVE  City Cruises. What a delight to step aboard an immaculate vessel, be greeted with a glass of champagne, enjoy a leisurely meal, live music and fabulous scenery. If you're a devotee of all things ocean related, you know that the venerable Hornblower Cruises was rebranded a few years ago as City Cruises/City Experiences. Rest assured, Hornblower's superb service and time honored classiness still exist. We recently verified that, celebrating an anniversary with friends in Newport. As we boarded Endless Dreams, the sun was shining and spirits were high. More than 100 fellow revelers booked an entire deck of this classy ship for their private birthday party. We checked in -- next to John Wayne's famous Wild Goose -- enjoying the festive decor of gifts, flowers and balloons. Everyone was dressed to the nines as we hopped upstairs to find our table.  Live music greeted us as we surveyed the picturesque harbor with lively company. The gifted guitarist took requests, keeping the party mood going. One may leave the pretty table at any time to view scenery on the open decks, then return at leisure. CHAMPAGNE  and mimosas in hand, we lingered over our appetizers -- tasty shrimp cocktail for me, perfect, rare ahi with aioli for Keller. We strolled the deck to admire the yachts and homes on the shore before sampling an elegant buffet, a bountiful selection of hot and cold entrees. Highlights were lovely rare beef, succulent salmon, artful salads, appealing side dishes. After another stroll, we approached a lavish dessert table of truffles, mousse and more delightful decadence. Friendly waiters kept everything pristine and fresh. The operation showcases quality produce, seafood, meats and desserts, with special regional touches by each city's chef. Setting the scene for the repast is important, too. The operation is equally proud of its beautifully kept, state-of-the-art luxury yachts, each with its own features and emphasis on pampering.  San Francisco on a perfect City Cruises evening, lights aglow. HORNBLOWER Cruises is a familiar name to lovers of the yachting experience for dinner and harbor tours. We've been Hornblower fans for decades and the operation's rebranding to City Cruises/City Experiences encompasses many of the same cities with loyal Hornblower loyalists: San Francisco, New York, and other cities where dining cruises and ferry services exist and operated long before the 2021 rebranding.  Whale watching delights on City Cruises Hornblower/City Experiences has grown to provide a sea loving variety of  services in 18 cities with over 100 sophisticated vessels. "City Experiences by Hornblower" offers myriad water and land based experiences, even overnight cruise opportunities, and ferry services including a delightful history-based trip to Battery Park and Liberty Island in New York. We've done that twice. The Newport shoreline is a wonderland of yachts, lovely homes, condos, people enjoying the water. WE CHOSE  our latest journey in Newport from many offerings and several ports near us, deciding on the festive brunch. We can highly recommend the operation's offerings in New York, San Francisco, Sacramento, Chicago and southern California cities including our San Diego base. We joined Illinois friends for a lovely evening cruise along the Chicago River, and in the Bay Area, we've cruised past Alcatraz Island and the Golden Gate Bridge, dancing to a jazz trio. Highlights of our New York forays include a dinner cruise with the Statue of Liberty and Tower One as our backdrop. In Washington, D.C., we chose a river outing as the perfect way to view the iconic monuments. LUNCH AND  dinner cruises are typically three hours. We've enjoyed them in New York and San Francisco, as well as in southern California ports. With each experience, we're made to feel special, served with courtesy, enthusiasm and impeccable manners.  Staff are carefully chosen for professionalism and personality. When I accidentally left my new prescription glasses on a deck table, our waitress and the booking manager tracked them down.  A crew member had thoughtfully rescued them. ALL PARTY sizes and a range of budgets are available. Guests may book a section of tables, a full deck or a private charter, as our birthday celebrants did in Newport. Father's Day specials are available in several cities to treat a special dad,  grandpa, husband, brother or friend. To book click here:  https://www.cityexperiences.com/city-cruises/ cityexperiences.com CLICK HERE FOR MORE Christene "Cookie" Meyers and Bruce Keller enjoy a shoreline sail on American Pride, the official tall ship of Long Beach, Calif. COMING UP : Ahoy from Long Beach and San Pedro, where three stately tall ships are keeping old-fashioned sailing alive and well, sharing the wonders of sailing with children of all ages. Both pleasure crafts and sailing classrooms, two twin brigantines in San Pedro and a three-masted schooner in Rainbow Harbor in Long Beach, California, serve as a marine education platform for the youth of southern California and offer special "sunset sails" for the public. You can book a Father's Day sail June 15, and a July Fireworks Sail Saturday, July 5. Find out more about these classic vessels and see how they keep afloat and provide children with unforgettable learning time at sea. Remember to explore, learn and live and catch us weekly for a fresh spin on travel, performance, nature and more. Please share this column with like minded people. Below is a link for more on Los Angeles Maritime Institute's work in schools and the public:    Click here for more on the above

Hilton Hawaiian Village Waikiki Resort evolved from simple beginnings nearly a century ago, as the Niumalu Hotel.  Now five towers on prime Waikiki real estate compose the famous resort. STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS Bruce Keller's helicopter view shows the village in all its spacious splendor, and its sheltered lagoon and beachfront. PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER two vintage photos courtesy Hilton A rare vintage photo of the property's 1928 grounds. IN 1928, A SMALL , charming inn opened on the beach of Honolulu. The Niumalu Hotel stood on the site where Hilton Hawaiian Village Waikiki Beach Resort now resides. The beloved Niumalu Hotel on Kalia Road became the nucleus of entrepreneur-industrialist Henry J. Kaiser’s Hawaiian Village Hotel which opened in 1955. Its new buildings replaced quaint clusters of 1900s hales, or cottages, built in the style of the Polynesian people who pointed their boats toward Hawaii. As they settled, they introduced grass huts with thatched roofs, new spices, music, dance and much more. These early cottages were known as Cressaty’s Court and Hummel’s Court at Kalia in the gorgeous, historic Kalia section of Waikiki. A smaller hotel, named the Old Waikiki, was developed in 1900, even before the Niumalu. The later property must have been a treat to guests in post-World War I times. It boasted 70 guest rooms -- compared to today's 3,386 rooms, after several name changes, owners and upgrades. The Ali'i is booked for its privacy, attentive concierge and a pool overlooking the Pacific. By 1955, pampered guests enjoyed the Tapa Room, garden paths and and three swimming pools six years later, in 1961, Hilton Hotels came into the picture when founder Conrad Hilton purchased half of the Hawaiian Village Hotel from Henry J. Kaiser. THAT SAME  year Elvis Presley filmed his movie, "Blue Hawaii" at the resort. Elvis and his entourage stayed on the 14th floor of the Ocean Tower (Ali'i Tower) in the Mahele Suite. The Ali'i Tower remains the     elite choice at the Hawaiian Hilton Village. The accommodations offer pampered service, access to the Ali'i private pool and fitness center. Guests praise its laid-back yet elegant standard, and prime beach views and access. Elvis Presley based at Hilton Hawaiian Village in the prestigious Ali'i Tower during the filming of  "Blue Hawaii" in 1961. WE HAVE  paid several visits to the resort, including the Ali'i (once named Ocean Tower), our favorite Lagoon Tower, and the Grand Waikikian, the latter two offering spacious time-share accommodations with full kitchens. The Lagoon, and as its name suggests, boasts a view of the resort's unique protected pond, named Duke Kahanamoku Lagoon, with a pretty central island.  We snorkeled there with our niece's two youngsters and found it a delightful protected "safe haven." There,  All hands on deck, for a fun afternoon sail on the resort's private Spirit of Aloha catamaran. "Thumbs up" for Hawaiian Nautical sailings with many choices. youngsters can enjoy themselves and have a sense of freedom.  Meanwhile, adults can relax  on the beach, keeping an eye on their kids' activities in the calm waters without worrying about ocean tides. My partner, Bruce, known by the youngsters as "Uncle KK," spent time with them teaching them snorkeling, paddle boarding and safety in the lagoon, while my niece and I visited. WE ALL enjoyed our time on Hawaiian Nautical's sleek and comfy Spirit of Aloha catamaran, which zips around the island, offering sunset cruises, nature outings and more. It's convenient and safe and perfect for families, couples or singles looking to meet fellow "boat buffs." On several outings, the crew was friendly and efficient and the outings rated 12 thumbs up from the six of us.  WHILE WE rented a car during our stay, aside from some shopping, we probably wouldn't have needed it. The resort's Hawaiian Nautical boating activities are right on the beach and easily booked, plus there are many restaurants.   We strolled twice to the sleek, accommodating Spirit of Aloha, for an afternoon snorkeling cruise and an evening sunset-dinner cruise. The boat is beautifully designed and perfect for convenient family outings, couples or anyone looking for a fun time on the water. If the dock is not at the hotel, the Hawaiian Nautical bus picks up right there and everything is close. Amarylla and Penelope Ganner pose with pet parrots at the resort. AT THE RESORT, five lovely  a nd unique towers are spread out in the artfully designed complex.  It boasts boutiques, restaurants, bars, coffee shops, quick-stop food options, and service desks for foreign customers, including a Japanese and a Korean help desk.  Shuttles, tours, taxi service and a variety of cruise options are available, and a children's day care, Camp Penguin, will entertain your youngsters while you head out on Oahu. IF YOU'RE feeling flush, you can purchase a special piece of jewelry, purse or shoes for yourself or a friend.  If you're more budget minded, you can shop for basic groceries to cook in your time share, or stock up on Hawaiian cookies to go with your own coffee.  You can also pick up pastries made with local delicacies including the islands' famed macadamia nuts or pose with pet parrots if you like birds. Want to buy a colorful Hawaiian shirt, shop for an extra suitcase, pick up souvenirs to take home? No problem. It's all at the resort.   Activities are planned daily, including ukulele lessons which we enjoyed, and lei making, ditto.  We even stepped in for a hula class, swaying with the balmy island winds to the "Hukilau Song" made famous by Bing Crosby. hiltonhawaiianvillage.com   hawaiinautical.com/book-now.html Grand Teton National Park offers a serene get-away as people recover from the anxiety and isolation of the virus. UP NEXT:   With the veil of COVID-19 slowly lifting, millions of anxious travelers are taking to national parks for relief and inspiration.  Record numbers of tourists are expected in our U.S. parks, with hikers, cyclists and families on holiday heading for stress relief in our varied and welcoming national parks. We visit some of our favorites -- Yellowstone, Yosemite, Grand Teton and Glacier, with a look at what not to miss. Meanwhile, explore, learn and live and please share the link for a fresh look at travel, the arts, nature and family: whereiscookie.com

Nick is surrounded by flowers on his 16th birthday. Even though he was virtually blind and had painful spinal and rear leg issues, he was still game for a walk, a snuggle, a kiss for his people. BRAVERY, LESSONS, LOVE, JOY FROM AN ENDEARING YORKIE NAMED NICK STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER Nothing like a Yorkie kiss, and Nicky was a generous kisser, here with his appreciative mama, Cookie. FOR THE first time in 17 years, I sit at the computer with no doggie at my feet. Nicky has crossed the Rainbow Bridge. He is deeply missed. His favorite blue bed sits under the desk. He'd wander over for a little lie-down when he heard me there (he had a half-dozen beds around the house, one in each room.)  He'd nestle down and snooze. He liked it when I touched his nose with my bare toe, to signal "I'm here. Love you, little guy." Lately, he'd been sleeping more. Since his twin sister Nora died two years ago at not quite 15, Nicky declined.  He paced, wandered the house, looked for her. We kept the bed they shared and one of her little coats for him to sniff. He often did, and cuddled with familiar toys and blankets.  He whimpered, he mourned. He cried, yes cried.    I asked three vets about his behavior. They assured me that dogs grieve, to give him time. Puppies Nora, left, and Nicky, learned to swim when months old, here drying off in Davis, Calif. GRADUALLY, HE rebounded from his sister's departure, but his body was failing.  Like old people, he had meds: Rimadyl for osteoporosis and painful spine and back legs, Cosequin to help him move and support his weary joints; fish oil with his kibble; treats fortified with calcium and glucosamine; doggie Xanax for car rides, which had become increasingly difficult. He'd pace and whine in the car. Our once idyllic road trips were no longer the fun they'd been before his anxiety. His back legs were shaky when he woke up and it took him a couple hours to move without stumbling or collapsing.  He was virtually blind and took his cues from us on walks, around corners, on steps in parks and gardens.  Bruce Keller, Nora, Cookie and Nicky at Lake Tahoe. He stopped jumping up on the couch and needed our help getting up and down the stairs, but he still took walks with us twice and day and even ran the last half-block home, leaving us huffing and puffing to keep up. He knew to stop at our house. By magic doggie braille he'd strut through the front door and bound into the house. Dog lover from birth NICKY DIED this past weekend, in friends' backyard. I regret that I was not with him but must believe he knows how we love and miss him. Nick personified the Yorkie profile -- smart, loyal, playful, fearless.  He survived many accidents: a rattlesnake bite, a run-in with a grizzly bear, leaps from second-story decks in two different homes after squirrels and birds. When he was four, he was run over by a  Keller with Nick, Nora near our California home.   speeding gravel truck resulting in a serious hematoma on his intrepid Yorkie head. Thanks to our fabulous Montana veterinarian, Rex, he lived to tell the tale.   He jumped out of the moving Explorer three times, in pursuit of horses, turkeys and deer.  Cookie sails with Nora and Nick, Mission Bay. WHEN HE   and Nora were two years old, he took on three off-leash pit bulls who attacked me and his twin sister.  She was nearly killed and was hospitalized for weeks.  I needed two skin grafts on my arm, but Nicky escaped with a bite on his right ear. The nurse and doctor who rescued us in an Arizona park were drawn to the scene by my screams and the sight of Nicky atop the growling dogs, who'd pinned Nora and me down. Recently, he recovered from serious pancreatitis with the help of a couple antibiotics and our TLC. Nicky, left, and Nora, at Santa Barbara pier. THESE TWO endearing, adorable little friends traveled thousands of miles with us. They rode trains, sailed in boats, snoozed in their beds in rental cars visiting San Francisco, New Orleans, Atlanta, New York, Santa Barbara, Portland, Seattle, Chicago, Phoenix, Las Vegas, Denver, Minneapolis, Billings and Ashland, Oregon, for our annual treks to the Oregon Shakespeare Festival. They took trams to the mountain tops of Palm Desert and Breckenridge. Nick and Nora logged more than 50,000 airline miles with us in 16 years of travel. When I approached the airlines for doggie frequent flier miles, they thanked me for my "humorous appeal." I wasn't kidding, but alas, no points for the pups. Favorite times with them were at our country place in Montana where they scampered in  Nora, left, and Nick, always on alert, ever curious .   the woods, luxuriated with us under the aspen trees and chased after squirrels, mice and rabbits (catching only voles, of which we had an excess. They were a formidable tag team in their prime.) They loved our walks on the beach, too, chasing seagulls, sometimes soaking themselves as the tide came in.  They snoozed beneath tables at my writing workshops, endearing themselves to all. Nora's legacy THE BONDS we humans form with our pets are like no others.  The cliche "unconditional love" is true.  Nick and Nora never quarreled with us.  There were no disagreements, hurtful remarks, and the occasional disobedience and scolding were quickly forgiven and forgotten by both parties. The Yorkies traversed both east and west coasts, here in La Jolla, California, sporting fresh haircuts with Cookie.  Reminders of  him and his sister are everywhere. I put my cereal bowl on the floor for Nicky to lick. I saved part of my chicken breast for him, then caught myself.  The freezer is full of little Tupperware dishes of "Nicky Stew," a special enticement I made from hamburger, chicken liver, rice, broth and his prescription canned food. This morning I found treats in my shirt pocket, doggie bags in my jacket.  His leashes hang by the doors.  His bed is still on ours.  Others are throughout the house, including the one I'm resting my feet on. It will be the last to go.  NICKY LIVED  in the now.  He taught me kindness, forgiveness, anticipation. As he aged, he did so with peace, a wise, endearing, patient old pal who seemed to know nothing lasts forever.  He  loved being with us, and his adopted aunties -- Sue, in Yorkshire, England, and "Auntie Nannie" in San Diego.  Nannie took care of him many times, keeping a careful log of his antics and activities, loving him deeply as we did and do. Our last Christmas card with both pups -- Nick, left, and  Nora, in the lilacs of High Chaparral, near Nye, Montana . She wrote a lovely poem to honor him. WHEN MY baby brother Patrick died in February, then a friend's ancient pet passed in April, this superstitious Irish girl had a feeling that Nicky would be "the third," -- he might not be with us much longer. We'd hoped to get him back to Montana, to bury him there.  It was not to be. So I grab another tissue, placing his tiny box next to Nora's. Nine pounds of joy now ashes. The cremation people told me he wouldn't want me to be sad. I'm hanging on to that. He taught me how to live a better life, how to age with acceptance, how to die with grace.  The house is quiet now. In the sorrow and silence, it comforts me to find Nicky and Nora in my heart. (Compassionate cremation arrangements for Nicky were made by a lovely couple who helped me choose his favorite blankets, consoled me and gently took him from my shaky hands: www.rainbowbridgepetscremations.com ) Queen Elizabeth is center stage, at 96, surrounded by members of the Royal Family. UP NEXT : We celebrate Queen Elizabeth II's long reign on the throne of England -- a remarkable 70 years.  Cookie saw her coronation as a tot and has followed "The Royals" through her long career as a journalist and travel writer, even meeting members of the family at various state functions. Come along to London with us, during a four-day holiday to celebrate this remarkable woman, now 96. Meanwhile, remember to explore, learn and live and catch us weekly for a fresh spin on family, travel, nature, the arts and more: www.whereiscookie.com .  Do share the links!

Christena Robbie Cosgriffe and her auntie Christene "Cookie" Cosgriffe Meyers last weekend. The child has both special needs and special gifts and is surrounded by a "village" of loving support. CARE OF CHRISTENA INVOLVES DOCTORS, LAWYERS, THERAPISTS, TEACHERS AND SUPPORT FROM HER LOVING FAMILY  STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER Christena beams recently at a gathering for her 12th birthday, here with her Uncle Keller. Christena in red tutu poses at dance class. At left is her now legal mother, Diane daughter Dani, granddaughter Lila and other family.   THE DAY Christena was born, her nurse confirmed what we suspected: she has Down Syndrome. The family asked the birth mother to have the recommended amniocentesis, to confirm possible birth defects  and give us time to prepare. She refused. So we took the news on the chin, admiring a beautiful baby -- our niece.  We began contacting special education support which we knew would be essential in making the most of her life. WHEN MY brother Patrick announced the surprise pregnancy and his impending fatherhood to the family, he was nearing 50.  He and his late wife thought he was not capable of fathering a child; Christena's birth mother assured him she could not conceive.  She was 45. Back then, in 2009, we knew little about the mother-to-be or Down Syndrome. We began to do homework, suspecting what we might be dealing with. RESEARCHERS know that the extra copy of chromosome 21 comes from the mother's egg and can be related to the mother's age. All that is water under the bridge, long past. The "now" part of the equation is that we have a child with special needs. We love her dearly, she is thriving with our abundant help, and we intend to keep her safe, cared for and beloved in our village. Her chromosomal condition is often associated with intellectual disability, a characteristic facial appearance, and weak muscle tone called hypotonia. All "DS" people experience cognitive delays, but the intellectual disability varies. We were happy to hear that, because our intent was and is to work with Christena on every level possible.  We were told she might not be able to read or write.  Christena's father, Patrick, with his beloved Christena. This was the occasion of her first birthday.  She does both with ease, thanks to our tutoring. She has vision issues and wears glasses, needs her ear canals cleaned frequently because hers are very narrow -- part of the birth defect.  She has permanent numbness on the right side of her mouth, which influences her speech. THE DOWN  Syndrome child has an extra chromosome -- 47.  Most of us are born with 46.  Characteristics besides low muscle tone include small stature, and an upward slant to the eyes, both of which Christena has.  She wore special orthopedic shoes for her first few years but no longer needs them, thanks to physical therapy to improve strength and balance. She has a continually curious look,  a mischievous smile and sometimes shaky hands. She has struggled to overcome her problems. Walking and moving are easier now and she dances daily. I've found a piano teacher who will take on a special needs child. All thanks to our "village" and patient TLC.  Loss of Christena's father, click here CHRISTENA'S BIRTH mother kidnapped her when she was less than a year old, took her to rural California and after losing a court battle for guardianship has not been present in Christena's life for 11 years, except for rare visits and occasional gifts of ice cream and other enticements. The child's now legal mother is Diane, my late brother Patrick's longtime partner.  Her role in Christena's life was confirmed by Judge Moses in a recent court decision. Our attorney, Jeff Turner, did a fine research job, expertly confirming the love and complex care surrounding Christena in Montana.  Auntie Jane and Christena at a Halloween party.  Diane was Patrick's fiancée and she has grieved deeply since his Feb. 5 death from COVID and complications.  They had planned to marry this summer, and his absence in their family of three is profoundly felt by all of us in the larger, extended clan. The birth mother's improved, approved involvement is welcome. We shall see. Auntie Olivia and Christena play. CHRISTENA IS  sometimes sad. "I miss daddy," she  says. We aren't sure exactly what's going on in her young head.  But she'll continue to be surrounded by love -- from her aunties, uncle, cousins, friends, school mates and "mama Diane," as she calls her.  Although Diane has grown children and grandchildren of her own, she adores Christena and has been her sole mother figure for the past nearly six years.  She considers Christena, "as beloved as if she were my own flesh and blood." She told the court this in a recent guardianship hearing.  The birth mother's attempt to keep the child in Anza, California, where she kidnapped her for a brief time in 2011, failed.  Christena's first years, click here   AFTER TESTIMONY Christena with her mama Diane, auntie Cookie and Yorkie Nick.  and depositions by myself, Christena's lifelong pediatrician and others, the judge ruled that Christena stays in Montana. Diane wept. All of us were teary-eyed, for we love Diane and greatly appreciate her tending to our niece's needs. She and Patrick raised Christena for the past six years, and now with help from our family and Diane's, the bonds continue. Christena has aunties, uncles, cousins and new sisters and loving grandparents in Diane's family! Though her early years were fraught with hospital stays, doctor visits, surgeries for lung and respiratory problems, and constant monitoring of a heart condition, both her physical and mental condition are improved.  Yet, caring for her is a full-time job.  When Patrick was alive and a single parent -- before his decline from more than 14 surgeries and hospital visits -- he spent much time taking her to doctors. He worked with speech therapists, monitoring Christena's progress, finding people to help improve her walking, speaking and balance. He faithfully lined up her medical and dental appointments, read to her morning and night, cooked, cleaned and kept her immaculate. He was an exemplary father, returning to school and graduating college with a double major and high honors. Christena with family, from left: auntie Jane, mama Diane, uncle Rick, auntie Misha.   WHEN DIANE entered the family six years ago, she quickly assumed maternal duties, working with Patrick to teach Christena to read and write.  They enrolled her in special education classes where she excels now at Castle Rock in Billings. She serves coffee and counts change at weekly faculty gatherings and has become a mentor to other handicapped children.  She seldom falls or trips now -- initially she frequently lost her footing.  She was and is a happy child -- affectionate and grateful for her family. She loves to dance, sing and dress up.  Our musical family has a lifelong tradition of theater, so this is a natural for us. Her Christmas present from us last year was tickets for her and her mama to Shen Yun at the Alberta Bair Theater.  Said Diane, "I could hardly keep her in her seat.  She wanted Christena with her mama, aunties and uncles at a recent dinner celebrating a court ruling that she remain with "mama Diane" and our family. to go dance on stage." At family suppers, Christena says grace, thanking the Lord for her parents, her family.   Her dedicated "village" includes special ed teachers, physical therapists, occupational and speech therapists, psychologists, vision specialists, nurses and social workers. She learns from them -- and in turn, we learn from her, for Christena teaches us all. From her we learn the virtues of patience, understanding, perseverance -- and LOVE!  Interested in the fundraiser for Christena's care and education?  Christena's future, Patrick's wishes   Even on holidays, faithful food service workers and hospital staffs must be  open for business. This woman and her co-workers cheerfully serve meals 365 days a year for patients at Montana's Billings Clinic Hospital. UP NEXT: As  Labor Day approaches, we take the opportunity to express our appreciation for the tireless workers who serve us and tend to our needs 365 days a year, including holidays. We're thankful for our health care workers, restaurant and entertainment workers, gas station attendants, tour guides, bus and taxi drivers, and policemen and women.  From transportation to travel, dining, health and more we offer a special Labor Day salute to the people in our lives who help us through daily rituals, appointments, and life's unexpected events. Meanwhile, remember to explore, learn and live and catch us weekly for a fresh spin on health (mental and physical), the arts, nature, family and more. Please share: www.whereiscookie.com

A hike above Malta's Blue Grotto offered an opportunity for a picnic and lovely afternoon  for Bruce Keller and Christene "Cookie" Meyers. They travel with joy in each new surrounding. PLAN BUT BE FLEXIBLE, EMBRACE OPPORTUNITY, ROLL WITH THE PUNCHES, LEARN, MAKE NEW FRIENDS    STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER Plan, but be open to surprise and a spontaneous event. In Tokyo we borrowed umbrellas at a shrine to stroll the gardens in light rain. “I haven't been everywhere, but it's on my list." I'M NOT CERTAIN  who first uttered this delightful observation, but it applies to me and millions of others who find joy in travel. We want to see everything there is to see in this wide, wonderful world. The blue cave of Kastellorizo is one of the stunning deep caves of the Greek Isles, a famous attraction. Don't miss the opportunity to tour.   So in hopes of helping fellow travelers, we devised "Travel's Ten Commandments."  We hope it will enhance your travels, give you ideas and inspire you to create your own travel code.  You can adapt it to fit your own lifestyle and desires. So here goes: 1. TRAVEL LIGHTLY . Remember, the best souvenir is a good memory, or two or three. Make it your goal to have stories to tell, not junk to show. This doesn't mean you can't pick up a beautiful painting, antique or something on the road that moves you and has meaning. Through the years, we've purchased tile in Venice, a chandelier in Rome, silk in Kyoto, scarves in Portofino and St. Petersburg and an onyx table in Mexico City.  That took seven weeks to reach us -- long after the credit card charge went through.  But it arrived as promised in perfect condition, a fabulous memory of a long-ago trip to a city we love with its world class archeological museum and so much more. Be selective in your purchases. Send things back if they're heavy. Don't weigh down your suitcase. Cookie delights in an espresso machine in her hotel room in Lisbon . 2. TRAVEL EXPECTANTLY. We believe each adventure is a learning experience. Try a new tour outfit, maybe a small one starting up. That's how we found CBM tours (Cant' Be Missed.) Wonderful find. Remember, sometimes things will go south.  Roll with it. Adapt. We've been in hotel rooms where we struggled to turn the lights on.  Sometimes, room lights work only when prompted by the room key which must remain in the wall. We've had coffee machines that call for contemplation; there isn't always a directional guide. Usually with a little patience (not my strong suit) and Keller's engineering expertise, we figure it out.  The espresso machine in Lisbon was a favorite gadget. Tiny espresso balls go into a press -- better than Starbuck's!   Gratitude is important on the road. We tipped this lovely waitress at La Boella in Tarragona, Spain. She surprised Keller with birthday cake.   3. TRAVEL HOPEFULLY,   with joy and a sense of fun. Try new foods, take a hike to woods you've never seen.  Awaken each day with anticipation.  What a happy sensation to open your eyes in a new room, new town, with a new language, birds, cafes, parks, museums, churches to explore. We like to take a walk after we check in our hotel -- though the temptation is to take a nap. Get with the new time zone. If your bags don't make it with you, fill out the forms and be patient. Remember that happiness is a way of travel, a lifestyle.  The destination is second banana.  4. TRAVEL HUMBLY . Be understated (a challenge for me). Cultivate your listening skills. Don't compare your new surroundings to what you're accustomed to. Don't expect the same ways of doing things -- you're traveling to learn.     Cookie and Keller await a train change in Italy. 5. TRAVEL COURTEOUSLY. As you listen and learn, you'll find new ways of doing things.  Be thankful for the store clerk who recommends a tiny neighborhood restaurant down the alley. Thank your hotel maid for the extra coffee.  Tip when it seems right -- a few Euros for the bellman who delivers your bags.  A small tip is thoughtful, good insurance for the porter who brings you ice. He'll do it each day if you start out right.   6. TRAVEL GRATEFULLY and with a generous heart. Travel is the only thing you buy that makes you richer so travel with appreciation for everyone who helps you -- and you'll find your good will is unfailingly returned.  Sample local fruits from the stand -- wash first. Here, we bought lunch fixings for a picnic on the Amalfi coast near Naples.   This cheerful lady in Vietnam became a friend as  we spent time with her at her family's farm. 7. TRAVEL WITH AN OPEN MIND . Experiment. An elderly fellow traveler -- 85 and still on the road -- says, "The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page." If a server suggests a dish you have never tried, give it a go. Once in a village in South Africa, we asked the waiter to surprise us. He served the house specialty: charred goat's head. We've sampled roasted grasshoppers in Thailand, fried tarantulas in Cambodia, calf's brains in Peru, haggis in Scotland (yes, it's spiced heart, liver and lungs served in stomach lining) and witchetty grubs under the shadow of Ayers Rock in central Australia. The meat from this wood-eating larvae is rich in protein. My Aussie mates assured me it is a nutritious snack when tramping through the bush. I recommend grub snacks only after a couple pints of Foster's ale.  Swallow whole. In the Canary Islands, the chef, behind Keller and Cookie, offered a holiday meal and "Wise Men" hats on Christmas Day in Gran Canaria. Cookie and our brilliant Rome guide, Lucilla, who has become a dear friend through the year s. 8. TRAVEL WITH CURIOSITY. Be flexible and curious about your new place. Soak it all up. Your job fills your pocket, but travel fills your soul.  We love tours that include a stop in a family farm or village where we actually can meet the people. In Vietnam, we spent a day with a family and still correspond with the three-generation household.   9. TRAVEL WITH IMAGINATION .  Enthusiasm and optimism are essential elements in any  successful trip. My grandmother Olive encouraged me to live the life I've dreamed of, to find the good in all people and places. The Dalai Lama advised, "Once a year, go some place you've never been before." Cookie and Keller swam with the manta rays in Bonaire. 10. TRAVEL FEARLESSLY . Now's the time to banish worry. Leave your shy side and timidity at home.  Don't flash big wads of cash around and watch where you keep your Euros (use a money belt or your shoe for large bills and try to limit carry cash and use credit cards.) I've been mugged three times in 57 years abroad. Only the first was successful when the bandits sliced my purse off my arm and I needed stitches. The other two times, I witnessed would-be robbers' hands going for my husband's wallet and yelled for police. The culprits dashed away both times.   Keller in front of Notre Dame in Paris. Yes, we still travel. But we don't open a map on a busy street corner.  We play it savvy, but with worldwide crime on the rise, we try to exercise caution but not fear. DON'T RETURN home lamenting that you didn't swim with the manta rays or buy the souvenir spoon or shot glass for a friend who collects them.   Should you take the trip?  Can you afford it? Never be so busy making a living that you forget to make a life. Think of the stories and memories you'll bring back.  And remember, when in doubt, Paris is always a good idea.  More on a spirited, small tour company: www.cantbemissedtours.com   Bruce Keller, Christene "Cookie" Meyers on "When and If." UP NEXT :  We're on the road and headed to Key West, Florida, for a relaxing sailing trip aboard a splendid and artful yacht designed by Gen. George Patton. The World War II hero dreamed of sailing the world after his noble efforts during the war. His exquisite creation, the yacht "When and If," gave him happy hours on the waters and now is berthed in Key West where it takes visitors on a magical sail off the shores of this lovely Florida port town. Meanwhile, remember to explore, earn and live and catch us weekly for a fresh spin on travel, art, nature, family and more: www.whereiscookie.com

Artist Celeste Barnett makes jewelry of discarded car parts that are not suitable for restoration. Here in her shop and studio, she eyes raw materials which will become sculpture and jewelry.  'ONE MAN'S TRASH' BECOMES EYE-CATCHING JEWELRY FOR AN ARTIST WITH A GIFT FOR FINDING TREASURE STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS Here is an artful sampling of the metal creations made in a country shop. PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER A COUNTRY GIRL  with ambition and a flair for design is turning trash into treasure. Each day, she's on the look-out for a discarded and useless piece of "old whatever" that could be transformed into art. Celeste Barnett grew up a self-proclaimed tomboy, following her welder dad, Terry Durden, into his Livingston, Montana, shop to watch and learn. "He's a very creative guy, a real talent," says Barnett with pride. "He taught me how to do everything he'd learned -- I loved to watch him work." Barnett asked her dad questions about the art of welding, learning to use his tools. "He made it look so interesting.  It was fascinating. I was hooked." That fascination has held from those long ago days, when Barnett preferred her dad's workshop to the kitchen. Inside the house, her only sister was more at home with her mom in a  traditional domestic backdrop. "But because I was the oldest of the two girls -- no boys -- it seemed more natural for me to be out in the shop with my dad." In her shop, cutting, grinding and polishing from auto parts that can't be salvaged has become a career for Celeste Barnett. FAST FORWARD a few decades, to college in Powell, Wyo., and MSU in Bozeman, a happy marriage and the birth of two much loved children, fourth generation Park County kids, Raelynne, 21, and William, 14. She's a nanny in Belgrade and he's a budding bareback rider who has already established a rodeo career. "Small businesses can be a way to support dreams," she says, noting that her artwork's proceeds go to William's rodeo career and tour and travel expenses. The family moved to Stillwater County in 2006 after her father-in-law was killed in an auto accident and they wanted to help and support his family. SHE CREDITS her husband of 17 years, Coleman Barnett, with playing a major role in encouraging her art career after years in marketing and graphic design. Barnett is convinced her time illustrating brochures, book jackets and other artistic endeavors paved the way for the metal art that she finds so fulfilling today. She also believes the pandemic and 2019 prepared the family for belt tightening. "By the time 2020 hit, I needed a break," she says. A shop fire, her daughter's departure for college, plus turning 40 had blocked Barnett creatively.  "Even tequila and dark chocolate couldn't help me!"  Bracelets, necklaces, earrings and more can be found in Barnett's country workshop. She took a time out and during this period of reflection, Barnett's husband's job at Stillwater Mining Company kept the family going. "I took a step back and realized I could create something I really wanted. Bonepile Bling was born." Earrings are light and showy, and recycled from an abandoned car. PART OF the inspiration was Coleman's ongoing 1964 Chevy restoration project.  He has an eye for collectable cars and trucks, finding discarded vehicles to help him restore the Chevy.  His "leftovers" provided the initial materials for his wife's budding career in metal working. "He'd picked up a parts truck for the Chevy and after he'd stripped all he needed, he planned to haul it off for scrap. Before we let it go, I salvaged a few pieces with that beautiful patina." She didn't have a specific project in mind, but she saw potential.   On their way to being jewelry, the process first involves cutting and salvaging pieces. Her artful eye found a future for those eye-catching discards. Using skills honed in her dad's shop, she creates graceful bracelets, flashy western style earrings, and other adornments. A new career has emerged.    ONE OF her most interesting commissions was for a client who wanted jewelry fashioned from a car belonging to her late, beloved father. She sent pieces from the vehicle to Barnett who created a fanciful necklace, bracelet and earrings to the woman's appreciation and delight. The finished products came from an arduous process of cutting, cleaning, bending, grinding and welding. Patience and vision are implicit in Barnett's creative process of "junkyard salvation."    This beautiful bracelet could have emerged from a hood or old door. Other autos beyond use and turned into jewelry include a 1957 Bel Air, 1959 Seneca,1977 Dodge Adventurer, and 1968 Ford Fairlane.  All inspire the growing custom made collection. Prices range around $40 and $45 and Barnett welcomes ideas for individual creations. TRADE SHOWS  Barnette designed her logo. and a wide-ranging client list from Iowa to Minnesota, the Rockies and west coast help fund her son's rodeo endeavors and keep Barnett feeling productive. "I truly enjoy spending time in the shop, junkyard browsing, and marketing a product that’s all mine," she says. She admits, though, that "it’s much more scary to be emotionally invested in my own project than trying my best to help get someone else's idea off the ground."  Dani Diaz and Ramon Villa are part of an energetic cast at Scripps Ranch.   More info or to order: www.bonepile-bling.myshopify.com/ BEST BET: San Diego's Scripps Ranch Theatre's "Extreme Home Makeover" is a thought-provoking work. An energetic four-person cast -- including two emerging young actors -- finds forum for their talent in this story of loss, grief and determination. It centers around a recently widowed Tejano woman, her two bright teen-agers and her cynical mother-in-law. The dream of making it big on the TV show from which the play's title comes is the theme, but there is a huge subtext. Each family member is struggling with the father's death, and Marco and Lupe as the kids are dealing with their mother's depression and anxiety. A clever work and one which will leave you moved and reflective.   Scrippsranchtheatre.org As Thanksgiving approaches, Christene "Cookie" Meyers  and Bruce Keller give thanks for their blessings, chief among them the ability to see the world. Next up!  UP NEXT: Giving thanks! So much to be thankful for as we bounce back from COVID ("crawl back" might be more accurate.) Even with the past few year's challenges -- family tragedy, the virus, the war in Ukraine, the failing  economy, political rifts, natural disasters of floods and hurricanes -- we celebrate being alive and relatively healthy and able to fly and travel again. We'll take to the airways and give thanks for being alive. Count your own blessings with us, and remember to explore, learn and live and catch us weekly for a fresh spin on travel, nature, the arts, family and more:  www.whereiscookie.com

The love of father for daughter is expressed in this photo of Christena Lynn Cosgriffe, taken on her second birthday.  Christena, born with Down Syndrome, kept Patrick going until last week.    LOVE, LOSS, LOYALTY, FAITH, FAMILY AND HOPES FOR A HANDICAPPED CHILD By CHRISTENE MEYERS Six Cosgriffe siblings, 11 years ago, with Patrick center in black "Clay Day" t-shirt and shamrock hat. From left, Rick, Olivia, Misha Kelly, Christene (Cookie), Patrick and Robbie, youngest sibling, who died in 2010.    PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER THE LAST phone visit I had with my brother Patrick was a philosophical one.  Perhaps he sensed the end was near -- but I had no inkling. He'd survived 14 surgeries and many hospitalizations, ambulance rides to the ER and long stays in physical rehab. His stamina surprised surgeons and his humor charmed nurses. He'd conquered drugs and alcohol addictions, accidents, falls, the loss of his spleen, hernias, back and more.  Despite tremendous odds, he'd always returned home to his beloved daughter, his only child, Christena. OUR GOOD  fortune ended Feb. 5, when he was removed from life support after a hopeless decline. Christena, now 11, believes her daddy is in heaven but asks, "when is he coming back?" Born with Down Syndrome, she survived several surgeries while still a baby.   Patrick Cosgriffe obituary   From left, a few Christmastimes ago: Christene (Cookie), Patrick, Misha, Rick and Olivia at Tate House, Georgia. Last week, with Patrick feeling chest congestion, and several friends and family with COVID, he was awaiting results of a home test for the virus that killed him. DEEPLY RELIGIOUS , he teased me for my agnostic leanings.  I thought he should be hospitalized, but he was holding out -- likely fearful of what might unfold.  "I think you should get to the ER," I urged. "Meanwhile, you'd better talk to your boy,"  He coughed and wheezed. "Cookie, he's your  boy, too," he said earnestly.  I hope so. I know the old saw -- "there are no atheists in a fox hole," suggesting fear encourages belief in a higher power. I'm no atheist, perhaps a skeptic, but I hope there is a hereafter -- for us humans and our "Rainbow Bridge" animal pals. My college minor was philosophy so like many of us, I've read Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, Epicurus, Zhuangzi and scores of modern thinkers. If there is a heaven, Patrick belongs there. When he was found not breathing, it was too late for the ER and after a few days in the ICU, an MRI revealed what we feared: no brain activity. After consultations with the doctors, we made the decision every family dreads. Patrick Cosgriffe, left, and Bruce Keller, enjoying fishing on the West Fork near Nye, Montana.  PATRICK WAS devoted to his buddies at Alcoholics Anonymous, and struggled to attend meetings, even in a wheelchair or with a walker. After the resurgence of COVID, he attended AA via Skype. His friend and sponsor, Vince, came to his home to watch football with him. In healthier days, he fished the Stillwater, Yellowstone, Musselshell, West Fork, and a pond in Wheatland County at our cousins' ranch. He inherited my first husband Bruce's antique Gibson guitar, which he played beautifully. He was a wise and wonderful brother with a lilting laugh and teasing wit, a cherished member of the large and loving clan, a devoted father to Christena. "I want to see the kid to 20," he'd say. "Then I'll be 70 and we'll go out together." CHRISTENA IS  sad, too -- we aren't sure exactly what's going on in her young head.  But she'll continue to be surrounded by love -- from her aunties, uncle, cousins, friends, school mates and "mama Diane," Patrick's partner and fiancée. Although Diane has grown children and grandchildren of her own, she adores Christena and has been her sole mother figure for the past nearly six years.  She loves Christena, "as if she were my own flesh and blood." Fresh from a run through the sprinkler, Christena is happy in the mountains near the West Fork of the Stillwater River. This happy child likely faces more surgeries, and has already survived five for heart and lung defects.  Her immune system is compromised and she bounces back from consistent painful treatments for ear problems -- narrow canals are common in DS children, causing pain and infections which she braves with grace. She knows the lyrics to "Frozen," loves to sing and dance.  She dresses up for Halloween and loves holidays and celebrations.  Her Christmas gift from us was a pair of tickets to "Shen Yun," with her "mama" Diane. "I could hardly keep her from climbing up on the stage," Diane said. "She was mesmerized." When she comes to our place on the West Fork of the Stillwater, she loves to help me feed the birds then run through the sprinkler, roll in the grass, play with our ancient Yorkie, Nicky. "May I help you?" is her frequent question, as she reaches for a broom or stacks plates from the dishwasher.   Christena and "Auntie Jane" dress up for Halloween. She delights our large, theatrical family with  her own sense of fun and drama . WHEN PATRICK  died, my sister Olivia and his partner  Diane were in the room with him. Niece, nephew, cousins cried in the waiting room. The tubes were disconnected, the heart slowed, he took a last long breath. Good night, sweet prince.    I used his hospitalization time to do what I do best: write, co-ordinate, make calls, consult the attorney to make sure the codicil to Patrick's will is followed: that guardianship of his beautiful daughter goes to Diane -- loving, devoted partner who helped nurse him through many battles. Raising a Down Syndrome child We've organized a fundraiser and generous donors who love the child and her papa are responding. (See link below). Huge expenses are the least of our worries. We are heartbroken.  Still, we remember it takes a village to raise a child, and we have one.  We will continue to nurture Christena, fight for Diane's permanent guardianship, and in so doing honor our brother's memory and his love for her -- and us. Rest in peace, dear Patrick. May "your boy" watch over you, take care of you and save a place for the rest of us.  Interested in the fundraiser for Christena's care and education?  Christena's future, Patrick's wishes   https://gofund.me/961d00a2 https://gofund.me/961d00a2   This stunning big horn sheep stands sentinel atop a rock above a pool at Hilton Waikoloa Village, near Makai, one of the beautiful hotels. UP NEXT:  A wondrous collection of art awaits and one doesn't need to buy a ticket to a museum. A visit to the renowned Hilton Waikoloa Village offers a world class collection of art from the South Pacific.  Sculpture, paintings, ceramic and more celebrate the genius of master craftsmen and artists from Asian, Western, and Oceanic cultures – with more than 1,800 pieces. We enjoyed our immersion in the heritage, culture and traditions of the many and varied South Pacific people, gaining insight into life in the Pacific. Remember to explore, learn and live and catch us weekly for a new twist on art, music, history, travel, culture, family and more: www.whereiscookie.com

High Chaparral in Montana is a family sanctuary, for it is filled with memories of happy times.  It also honors the memory of family members who have "gone to the next camp." Above, a granite memorial with  names of  the deceased. At right,  a bronze of Bruce Meyers. Left of that, a U.S. Army memorial for William Jones, Cookie's first and second husbands.  Let us go then you and I, when the evening is spread out against the sky --From "The Love Song of J Alfred Prufrock" by T.S. Elliot Flowers, rocks placed by family members and a piece sign placed by youngsters -- and left as they placed it, upside down. Part of the yard art.  STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER THE GARDEN and yard at High Chaparral, a mile above sea level in the Northern Rockies, embody our clan's love of nature, the arts and family. The setting represents my belief that love transcends death. When we love people, they remain with us -- in vivid memory and stories, photos, music, deeds. "Saturn Doll" comes alive each summer at High Chaparral.  She is "dressed" by my  clever niece,Midori Otokawa, whose  brother and sister are memorialized  on the nearby granite wall. She is one of the angels in the garden. We come here -- from thousands of miles away and many states -- to commune with one another, and feel close to our ancestors' spirits, to enjoy bountiful bird life, to revel in family, to soak up Montana's summer splendor.  I'm a devoted fourth generation Montanan.  The next two generations are fifth and sixth-generation Big Sky Country connections. Some were born here, most are Montanans by heart. IN 1993  when I bought and expanded this 15 acres, I designed and commissioned a memorial for loved ones.  The year before, I'd commissioned a memorial on the campus of Montana State University-Billings, where my first husband, Bruce Kemp Meyers, taught creative writing and English for 25 years. Befitting the birthday of a Leo (Cookie), this lion batik stands sentinel in the High Chaparral garden. I'd toyed with the notion of another memorial, one which would honor my beloved "Irish twin" sister Peny.  I chose her as the "dividing line" -- she passed away in 1986.  Her death would be the first memorialized.  To go back further would have meant many more names, then were to begin? BECAUSE MY  adored sister Peny was the first of our family to choose cremation, her passing seemed a good place to begin the homage. Her ashes rest here, along with the other seven.  Our grandparents, great grandparents and those who passed in centuries before, were buried -- in the tradition of  those times in western culture. Antlers found on the grounds during walks up the mountain and along the river make an artful welcome at the  back door. The memorial also honors my parents, my two late husbands, my  youngest sister Robbie, whom I helped raise, and my tiny niece, Brooke, who died after only a day, borne into the next life in her Atlanta mother's arms. Her beautiful brother, Eric, is also honored. (He helped me set the memorial stones.) Eric was brutally murdered by a drug-crazy person who broke into his home on a sunny weekend morning. There is room for more brass plaques, although I hope not too soon. THE MEMORIAL  took shape quickly.  My dear friend, Corby Skinner, helped me choose the granite -- a hauntingly beautiful, calming grey-green-amber slab.  It came from the hills of South Africa, where I've visited. The artist who helped me build the memorial and plant the surrounding gardens is South African. So San Van Eeden's presence adds another dimension to this sacred spot in the Beartooths. It is a sanctuary for me and many. Cookie's music echoes through the canyon during memorials and celebrations, held in the garden near the spirits. A quote from T.S. Elliot's "The Love Song of J Alfred Prufrock" is engraved on the granite top. It captures the spirit this peaceful spot conveys.  Bruce Meyers taught the poem for a quarter-century. He loved "Prufrock" for its rich language, its revealing nature of the narrator's emotional state.  I like it because it sings. Petunias, a family favorite, grace the memorial and grounds. It embodies a sense of mystery, it invites us to "come along" with Prufrock.  It ponders the inexorable nature of time, the brevity of life. I SIT OFTEN  on the bench by the memorial, pondering that elusive meaning of life, listening to the birds, watching the occasional bull snake slither peacefully through the perennials in search of a snack. Rustic touches, such as a milk can from the family's Beartooth Ranch of long ago blend with contemporary art.  Patrick Cosgriffe, a gifted potter as is his brother Rick Cosgriffe, made this whimsical self-portrait pottery piece, celebrating  Christmas, hisdaughter Christena and the rivers he loves to fish. The memorial and its art -- all contributed by family and friends -- makes me happy, slows me down, helps me focus. I love it. High Chap's beauty is enhanced by construction engineer Bruce Keller.  Cookie's recent birthday served as a good reason for the family reunion. Above, part of the group gathered around the memorial for entertainment. . Expert piano tuner Michael Toia took a look at the writer's vintage upright. He is an acclaimed piano tuner, and does that full-time at Tippet Rise. UP NEXT:   The magic behind the perfectly tuned pianos at Montana's internationally acclaimed Tippet Rise Art Center is a soft spoken talent from Hawaii.  Michael Toia is a gifted tuner, known for his precision and capabilities.  He keeps the complement of Tippet Rise pianos in perfect harmony for each of the season's varied concerts.  How did he land this gig?  And what does he do in his rare spare time?  We'll share with you.  Remember to explore, learn and live and catch us each Friday for a novel look at art, travel, nature, music and travel.

Cookie and Keller pause against the sparkling skyline, enroute back to their digs at the stylish Langham Hong Kong.                                                                                                                                                                                                                        A ROSE AT REGISTRATION, EDIBLE PINK SLIPPERS, AFTERNOON TEA AND A CLUB FLOOR FOR YOUR CASTLE Noel Lau, head butler on the Langham  Hong Kong's lounge floor, remembered our names and greeted us warmly.   Choose your tea from more than two dozen varieties at the Langham Hong Kong.  The lounge or club floor caters to distinguished, understated service in lovely surroundings. STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER WHOEVER SAID  "I don't care where I stay -- it's just a place to sleep" has obviously never hung his hat (or shed her slippers) in a Asian  floral art provides welcoming colors and comfort on the lounge floor.. Langham Hotel room. For at Langham, the hotel room is far more than a place to sleep.  It's a place to celebrate, luxuriate and enjoy -- a delightful part of the journey called travel. Langham's special touches range from in-house scones baked daily, to this edible pink chocolate slipper. Pink is Langham's signature color.   We've sampled Langham's wonders in London, Melbourne, and recently in Hong Kong, and have always been delightfully surprised. LANGHAM  exudes style, with each property incorporating design elements of the local culture. Service is the byword. If you enjoy your white wine with a single ice cube, you'll get that! Luxurious marble  provides a  beautiful bathroom. If you like your slippers by the bed, or nightie on the pillow, the housekeeper will make it happen. The staff in a fine hotel knows these things and offers service with gracious ease. Superb care comes with training, practice and cultivation of "people skills." The Langham folks like what they do. Langham Hong Kong's bedrooms are lavishly decorated with stunning views. LANGHAM  Hospitality Group's history goes back to 1865, when The Langham London opened as Europe's first "grand hotel." Today's Langham empire covers four continents, with projects spanning the globe from Auckland to the Bahamas, Bangkok, Beijing, Boston, Guangzhou, Hong Kong, London, Los Angeles, Melbourne, Phuket, Pune, Samui and Shanghai. The group's success is continuing in Japan, where the Langham's  rapid expansion continues. Soon, Tokyo’s liveliest area, Roppongi district, will offer The Langham Tokyo with a pricetag of more than ¥50 billion ($420 million). It will open in 2019, a year before Tokyo hosts the 2020 Olympics. Like Langhams worldwide, it will offer traditional afternoon tea, with warm scones, clotted cream and thick strawberry jam. Langham Hotels International is owned by Great Eagle Group, a leading Hong Kong company. Langham guests may choose one of several suites with full dining rooms, and a butler's kitchen for arranging specialty meals and celebrations.  LANGHAM  incorporates elegance with local art and the natural resources of each region. In Hong Kong, gorgeous wood, art and fabrics adorn the suites and public areas.  The owner has his own dining room with a beautiful display of chopsticks, individually labeled for each guest. Langham is always astute when it comes to location. In Hong Kong, we walked to the harbor, the theater and several fine restaurants during our stay. Langham Hong Kong, in the city's prime shopping district of Tsimshatsui, is within easy walkng to fabulous shopping and entertainment.  World famous Victoria Harbour was our daily   diversion, minutes from the hotel. In a city of high rises and high rent, Langham Hong Kong boasts a rooftop pool. It is a restful haven in  a  hectic, densely populated city.  LANGHAM ALSO  prides itself in creating a relaxing, welcoming environment for travelers. Langham Hong Kong personnel immediately knew our names, greeted us with sincerity (and a pink rose) and went beyond duty's call to make our stay a highlight of a five-week Asia trip. Park Hotel Tokyo has made its mark with a unique "art floor" with each room decorated by an artist, who chooses and designs his or her theme.     COMING UP : Another hotel with an artist's soul.  Make that "artists' souls" -- plural.  The Park Hotel Tokyo has devoted an entire floor to the work of artists from throughout the region.  Each room is decorated in a particular style, with themes as varied as the sea, mythology and Japanese history, Here, the ceiling of our room celebrates celestial wonders and tells a story of a well known Japanese folk character. Remember to explore, learn and live, as we travel the globe looking for unusual angles and experiences to share.  Catch us Friday evenings when we post for the weekend.

Queen Elizabeth's pool is spacious and inviting, but understated in its artful touches.  A stunning marquetry panel invites inspection as one enters Cunard' Queen Elizabeth. OLD WORLD ELEGANCE LIVES ON IN CUNARD'S THIRD 'ELIZABETH' STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER Glittering chandeliers, beautiful wood,marble and tapestries adorn Queen Elizabeth's ballroom.   TO BUY 'LILIAN'S LAST DANCE' THE NOVEL CLICK HERE W HEN THE QE2 retired,  I was one sad girl.  I'd crossed the Atlantic eight times on her, cruised the Norwegian fjords on her, interviewed celebrities on her.  I have cherished, romantic memories of dancing in her hallowed ballroom with both of my late husbands.  The latest Queen Elizabeth is the third to bear the royal name -- christened by Her Majesty The Queen in October of 2010. We recently stepped aboard her to revive old memories and create new ones. Though Cunard considers her Queen Mary its flag ship and the closest in design to the old-fashioned liners, Queen Elizabeth bears many of the familiar "liner" touches. From its world class floating library (more than 6,000 books from which to choose), to her legendary "Queen's Grill" service, to elegant commissioned artwork and private boxes in the theater, the Queen offers contemporary luxury with a nod to the past for its 2,000-plus passengers. Artist Arnold Schwartzman poses by one of two beautiful art deco murals he created in the grand lobby of the Queen Elizabeth. "UNDERSTATEMENT"  best describes the major difference between other large ships and Queen Elizabeth.  You won't see glitz, flash and color. You will see dark polished wood, muted light, chandeliers, marble, classy artwork reminiscent of the Orient Express rail days, paintings and panels commissioned by Cunard using award winning artists. OLD-FASHIONED  glamour is the byword on QE. Art Deco inspired design invites comparison to the original Cunard queens -- Elizabeth and Mary, the first of which perished in a fire, the latter much revered and often visited in Long Beach. QM welcomed her "niece"  earlier this month, the reason for our invitation to tour Queen Elizabeth. WITH QUEEN ELIZABETH 2  docked in Dubai now -- future unknown -- and the original QE gone, I invoked the cruise muse on a recent tour of the third QE, known simply as Queen Elizabeth. Queen Elizabeth's lounges and quiet spaces recall long-ago liner travel. This "queenly" ship in 2015 recalls cruising of 75 years ago, when travelers packed steamer trunks and dressed in black tie for dinner, strolling the promenade deck with a pause for sherry or a cognac. There's a "prom" on Queen Elizabeth, and old-fashioned deck chairs with blankets nearby, to take the chill off a bracing Atlantic crossing. MOST  of today's cruise ships -- emphasis of "cruise" -- are not intended to be "liners,"  although the distinction has blurred. Click the link below to: Jump to Cookie on theater, books and the arts at: Lilianslastdance.com Queen Mary's amiable Commodore Everette Hoard explained that grand liners were built for speed, durability and all-weather crossings, while today's cruise ships make specific circuits of "vacation" spots, often starting and finishing in the same location. Cunard's three queens still cross the Atlantic regularly, as did their ancestors. Queen Elizabeth's captain posed aboard Queen Mary. His ship is behind him and his colleague. Like the liners of old, today's Cunard queens accentuate elegance with the class and dignity of yore. You'll find harp music rather than a rollicking disco, and string quartets in the subdued public areas, not high-tech nightclubs catering to all-night partying. No poolside belly-flop contests, but a romantic dinner under a chandelier with five-star service from a white-gloved waiter. IF YOU  don't care to don black tie, you can dine in one of the casual restaurants, but our Cunard tour guide emphasized that Elizabeth's passengers want glamour and dress-up. They like ballroom dancing, lawn bowls and afternoon tea, thank you. A bronze of Queen Elizabeth is among memorabilia on QE. Although Cunard is American-owned, you'll feel close to the United Kingdom as you order your hamper from Fortnum and Mason, stroll Harris Tweed for sale and enjoy a cocktail in the sunlit Garden Lounge inspired by the famous glass houses of London't Kew Gardens. ELEGANT MARBLE  -- cream and chocolate -- blends with polished wood in public spaces. Beauty awaits at every turn -- in intricate wooden marquetry and maritime themed paintings. Happily, Cunard is a seafaring packrat. The framed memorabilia delights: a Christmas card from Queen Elizabeth II in a glass case, a solid silver model of QE2 made by the famed London jeweller Asprey, the bell salvaged from the first Queen Elizabeth. The kakapo of New Zealand is up next. COMING UP : New Zealand's birds are a wondrous lot. From the gorgeous green kakapo, a flightless parrot, to the kotuku, a sleek white heron, we'll take you to both islands, from Milford Sound to the southern tip, for birds of a Kiwi feather. Visit us here at www.whereiscookie on Wednesdays for travel, cruising, adventure, and nature-driven trips. Check out www.lilianslastdance on weekends for the arts, with features on theater, books and our new novel, "Lilian's Last Dance." Remember always to explore, learn and live!