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Asia itinerary: Bucket list trip finds happiness, new friends around every corner

  • Writer: Cookie & Keller
    Cookie & Keller
  • Mar 4, 2016
  • 3 min read

Updated: May 23

Travelers' testimony: Happy people exist everywhere -- look around

Group of Japanese women in colorful kimonos and scarves smile and gesture peace signs on a narrow street with traditional buildings, exuding joy with Cookie
Young Japanese girls enjoy a stroll in Tokyo's temple filled Asakusa area. They show off their kimonos, greeting Cookie and offering their wares.

“Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness.” – Mark Twain


STORY By CHRISTENE MEYERS

PHOTOS By BRUCE KELLER

"The Carpe Diem Kids"


Some of the best travel memories are not always famous landmarks or postcard-perfect views -- they are the people we meet along the way. In Asia, every street market, fishing village, bustling city, and quiet café offers a chance to connect with remarkable individuals whose stories shape the heart of a destination.

Mekong Delta, Vietnam Cookie and grandma share hug, smiling warmly.  Laundry hangs in the background.
Cookie communes with a grandmother in a small village in the Mekong Delta, Vietnam. The two talked about eggplant as "Ba" showed Cookie her garden.


Our Asia bucket list trip is taking us on the road in Southeast Asia, and into Japan for a week. Everywhere, we've been surrounded by happy, gracious people.


We've been offered tea, directions, dried insect snacks and a pair of month-old puppies. (The latter was tempting because we miss our Yorkies.)


Lady tourist from Singapore poses Keller at a Buddhist temple in Vietnam
A tourist from Singapore meets Keller at a Buddhist temple in Vietnam.

“Travel is more than the seeing of sights; it is a change that goes on, deep and permanent, in the ideas of living.” – Miriam Beard


WE at whereiscookie.com have TRAVELED by train and tuk-tuk, elephant and rickshaw, cruise ship, taxi, bicycle, sampan, barge and junk to check items off our Asia Bucket list trip


  • We've flown five airlines on seven flights -- from San Diego to San Francisco, across the Pacific to Singapore and Vietnam, to Bangkok, Hong Kong and Tokyo.

Travel bloggers Cookie and Keller inside Tuk-Tuk in Bangkok with 2 friends
Travel bloggers Cookie and Keller inside Tuk-Tuk in Bangkok with 2 friends

Thai mother and child in Vietnam
Thai mother and child illustrate international traits: a parent's enthusiasm, a child's fatigue and perhaps indifference.

We met legions of happy and content people in the five countries -- 15 towns and villages --we've been privileged to visit.

2 Colorful Vietnamese ladies hug travel blogger Cookie in old local neighborhood
Vietnamese girls, new friends, embrace Cookie on a shopping spree.

What binds our fellow humans is simple.  They like their lives, are proud of what they do. We travelers exhibit that quality on which Blanche Dubois relied: "the kindness of strangers." Our hosts have shown appreciation, curiosity, patience. We've tried to do the same.


  • Travel forces one to trust -- in strangers, in safety of  the new, in joy of discovering surprising foods or drinks. The pleasure of different ways of doing things.


  • So we travelers cast aside the familiar and comfortable, and stretch.

Vietnamese father holding young son waves as we tour by their house
From Hong Kong to Saigon to Bangkok, scooters are popular transport.

Who knew, for instance, that a favorite Japanese candy has pork flavoring in it, or that a sack of dried grasshoppers has the same amount of protein as a fried egg.


THE BASIC things that bind us as humans are the same.


  • We love our families, breathe the same air, eat, sleep, travel, dream.

  • Whether selling kimonos or maple pancakes, leading a tour to another temple, explaining the workings of a gallery or restaurant, or ushering a group through a private home, our hosts smile, bow, offer beverages, share a slice of life.


Paolo from the Philippines with Cookie on the Celebrity cruise ship Millennium
Paolo from the Philippines befriended Cookie and Keller aboard Celebrity's Millennium, with cocktails each evening.

“The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page.” –  St. Augustine



THE PEOPLE we have met have run the gamut from retired, wealthy and carefree, to financially challenged, even poor. Some live three generations in tiny homes.


  • Others know only mansions and five-star hotels. The simplest homes we visited were immaculate. The people who've served us, cleaned our rooms and prepared our cabins were proud.


  • Our fellow travelers on lounge floors, tour boats, cruise ship suites, dim sum street stalls, and concerts showed respect and curiosity.


  • I travel not to go anywhere, but to go. I travel for travel’s sake. The great affair is to move.”   Robert Louis Stevenson




COMING UP: The waterfront. We travel the waters of major Asian cities, and sail and row in small villages. We look at the beauty of small boats, cruise ships, ferries, a floating restaurant and an endangered Chinese junk.


Come along  for the ride, remembering to explore, learn and live.


Sailing on a junk in Hong Kong harbor with financial distract high-rise buildings in the background
Hong Kong Harbor, one of the world's busiest, sports the world's only working junks.

Catch us Thursdays or any day when we post new tips on What to see and how to save money and time for global travelers at whereiscookie.com


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